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The Rollercoaster Ride of Wigs: Embracing The Good, The Bad, and The Utterly Rude

Hello, fabulous readers!

Navigating the tumultuous seas of hair loss was no breezy affair. In fact, if my journey from lush locks to the wig wonderland was a rollercoaster, it would rival the most thrill-inducing rides at Disneyworld.

1. The Identity Crisis: Losing hair felt like parting with a piece of myself. You know, the wind-in-the-hair feeling, or those bad hair days that secretly made me feel dramatic. Hair isn't just hair; it's an identity, a crown we never take off.

2. The Dazzling World of Wigs: Entering wig territory was scary and overwhelming all at once. From the endless styles to the myriad colors and sizes - it was a universe I had no idea about.

3. The Big Reveal: Stepping out publicly with my first wig felt akin to being an undercover agent. Would someone point it out? Would they know? I was secretly engulfed by embarrassment and fear.

4. The Silver Linings Amidst Stormy Clouds: As I grappled with my own emotions as a new wig wearer, an incredibly hurtful incident occurred. A particularly tactless nurse at work, behind my back, decided to fuel rumors linking my hair situation to the sick day I took when my hair loss took it's final turn. However, the darkness was pierced by a beacon of light - my husband. In an act of solidarity, love, and sheer defiance against societal norms, he shaved his head. His message? Hair doesn't define us. Upon my return to work, this same nurse brazenly invaded my personal space, touching my hair without consent. I held my composure, but the moment she walked away, the dam of emotions broke. She was overheard later laughing with coworkers about my 'wig'. It was a poignant reminder of the harsh realities many of us face but also a testament to the strength we garner from such experiences. There were a few coworkers I shared what happened with and one of them even cried with me. They helped me stay strong.

5. The First Step to Acceptance: Like breaking in a fresh pair of heels, the initial days of wig-wearing came with their fair share of discomfort. But soon, it became a part of me, and the world became my runway.

In conclusion, my journey of hair loss and discovery of wigs was about so much more than appearance. It was about resilience, self-discovery, and the unbreakable spirit of the human heart. To all wading through their own hair-related journeys, remember: It's not the crown on your head, but the love in your heart that truly matters.

Stay fabulous and stand tall, Lisa

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